Meet An Incredible Man

Selective Search Clients are distinctive, high-caliber, successful men who are looking to meet the love of their life. Totally commitment-minded, they are hidden treasures – highly sought after men who have it all and know what they want in their mate. They're not the type of men you'd meet at a bar, club, online or through a traditional dating service.

As the nation's leading upscale, boutique personal search firm, our Client's enlist Selective Search to introduce them to their perfect match. They understand the value in being selective and the benefits of our Meet Your Future® selection process. They appreciate the effectiveness, the time-savings and personal approach in having a professional handpick someone who is absolutely perfect for them. Our guys don't use Selective Search to ‘date recreationally' like other dating services. They genuinely want to meet the love of their life! And knowing that we've hand picked the two of you as sharing the same standards and criteria, they're ready to invest the time to commit to the relationship. They want what you want – true lasting love. And this is why Selective Search is so successful!

Executives, Business Leaders And Entrepreneurs

Our Clients are corporate executives, business leaders, professionals and entrepreneurs. They don't need to be ‘fixed-up'; rather, they are selective. They represent a wide variety of ages, religions, professions and ethnicities. Some have never been married, having spent time building successful businesses and careers, others are divorced or widowed. What our Clients have in common is that they are all high-quality individuals - truly great guys who bring it all to the table. They are total packages who are commitment-minded and wanting to meet a woman like you, a woman of style and substance who equally wants to be in a long lasting relationship.

Proprietary Client Background Certification® Process

Selective Search prides itself on being the safest and most discreet matchmaking firm in the country and the industry. We work diligently to maintain that reputation. Before we accept a Client into our program they must be personally interviewed in-depth and have undergone our proprietary Background Certification® process. We don't accept every man as a Client. We safeguard our reputation by taking on only quality, high caliber, commitment-minded men who meet our standards.

A Woman Owned Company

As a woman owned company, we truly understand the frustrations and pains of dating. Trying to meet someone who shares your standards, interests and aspirations is challenging. Finding those qualities in a person you also have chemistry with – can sometimes feel like hunting for that needle in a haystack. But we don't want you to settle. In fact, we applaud your standards and highly advocate sticking to your ‘non-negotiables.' You'll never be happy in a relationship if you don't and we wouldn't be doing our job correctly if it were any other way. we're on your side.

Women Affiliates Join Free! – FREE – No Fees Associated To Privately Register!

Our Affiliate program is our most popular option, as featured in USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, Cosmopolitan, People, Marie Claire and on Extra TV. As an Affiliate, there is no cost to join our off-line private network, so you have nothing to lose and a great guy to gain! We'd love to know you so we can consider you for one of our bachelor searches. The men you'll be introduced to through Selective Search are of an outstanding caliber; and they're looking to find you - a woman of the same exacting standards and caliber. What better reason to give us a try? Again, Affiliates may join Selective Search for no fee. Let us know you! You can register right now online by taking a few minutes to submit your private application. Your application is completely confidential and only reviewed by our internal team of experienced matchmakers.

The Affiliate Program Process

Once you've registered as an Affiliate and we receive your information, we'll be able to consider you for one of our eligible Clients. After our Personal Matchmakers internally review your application, if we believe you are an appropriate match for one of our Clients that we're pro-actively searching for, we'll contact you directly to gain your approval. This may be immediately, or down the road. Much like an executive recruiter, there are no guarantees; but again, you have nothing to lose and a great guy to gain! Although our Affiliate Program is free to join, our Affiliates are dedicated to making their love life a priority. We ask that you understand there is an emotional and time investment involved in our process. In return, Selective Search would never waste your time with an introduction you wouldn't be interested in. Our only goal is to see you in the happiest relationship of your life.

Join Now For Free!

But, you'll never know what incredible guy we have in mind for you, unless you tell us about yourself! If you're ready to Meet Your Future®, then get started now! If you are a woman of considerable substance and style who is looking to meet someone special – a really great guy who matches your sophistication, background and quality – we want to hear from you! Sign up privately right now! Again, it's free to join as an Affiliate, so you have nothing to lose and a wonderful man to gain!